TRIBUTE BY IRENE HULEDE
Never in my wildest dream did I think I will be writing a tribute about you Patrick. Writing in the “past tense” brings me so much pain, I feel like I am in a constant nightmare hoping to wake up to hear “this is not true”. Receiving that call on the morning of January 11, 2021 was an impossible news to bear! Why would you leave us so prematurely? If I am feeling this way as a friend, I cannot even imagine what Lynda, your children, your mom, siblings and other family members are going through. May God give everyone strength during this difficult time.
As I write, I am trying hard to focus on the good memories. Patrick, our friendship goes way back from our days at Achimota; then together during our undergraduate years in Boston, to hanging out with family and friends in Boston, Maryland and Ghana. I also recall the pleasant reunion in Bangkok in 2012. No matter how much time elapsed between our reunions, it was always easy to pick up where we left off.
You always took the role of a protective brother with me which I will treasure always. You had a way with bringing people together and loving unconditionally. You and Lynda always hosted me at your home whenever I visited Ghana. It was customary that we had to meet even if it was for a short time to enjoy quality time and enjoy some good Ghanaian homemade dishes. We shared so much laughter and fellowship during our get-together in January 2020. How could that be our last time seeing your smile? I treasure that last text I received from you on Christmas Day 2020 wishing me a safe 2021 with the hopes of meeting again soon. Little did I know that you were saying your goodbye.
Patrick, it’s going to be very difficult visiting your home and you not opening the door to welcome me with your warm hug! As difficult as it will be, I promise that your memories will continue to live with us. You have left a strong legacy and your spirit will always live in our hearts.
Patrick, you taught us many life lessons but one that I will keep dear to my heart is to treasure friendships, help others as best as I can and most importantly to always live for today and not postpone sharing and spending quality time with loved ones. Sleep peacefully Patrick. Till we meet again!
